destination chatting

chatting without a destination.. cool thing eh? guys and gals are soooo different in this aspect..

guys need to chat with a destination.. there must be a purpose in our conversations... if a man picks up the phone and calls his buddy.. he must have a reason to call.. even if they shoot the breeze a little.. there is still a reason for calling..

gals (what strange creatures) dun need a reason to call.. sometimes they just want to hear your voice.. so if a gal says to a guy.. "let's talk"... the normal response from a guy would be "talk about what?".. am i right? but for a gal.. doesn't matter what.. just talk.. about anything.. dun have to have a topic.. no need a conclusion...

sometimes though.. they would need a destination.. like let's talk and make a decision on what house should we buy.. then.. they want our advice/suggestion..

so gals.. we are created differently.. pls know that.. dun expect us to know what you are thinking.. be our coach on yourself.. cos ur the expert on yourself.. tell us.. "hey.. let's have a chat" which means no destination .. or " i need your advice on something" which means "i need your advice on something"...

as guys, when u tell us something.. a problem or someone breaking up or whatever.... we'll automatically try to fix it..... a..u..t..o..m..a..t..i..c..a..l..l..y.. cos it's in our nature.. if u dun need fixing.. pls tell us u dun need fixing..